how do we help our children deal with difficult in motion
fear frustration anger 3 guilt est Paris is normal for us to want their children
to be happy to be enjoying life.
so perhaps sometimes the following the temptation
abusing responses the chance phrase battle hack
you should be sad about that you shouldn't feel that way don't even think
. about that
just forget about it well we use those kinds of responses were communicating to
our children
that what they're feeling is not about it %uh were also communicating to them
. that we're not miss a person for them to bring those motions to
we also are missing the opportunity to help develop
a nice skill that they're going to meet which is the ability to
processed through the motions but they're going to have
. throughout they're like in Seoul
ok great way to respond to our children minder
dealing with difficult emotions going to grappling with the motions that
weenie the alarm lessons are more difficult it to me
. right where they are to show up net
no I hear to listen with out interrupting their
that way they have the opportunity to share their heart no matter what its
flashing through our
flying thrive on well of come to mind why we think they shouldn't the feeling
that way
and how it probably have miss read the situation
and you think it's an overreaction just here
. our as parents want an email or something if he actually hear from our.
but also it should be the case them that there be
her that there be understood then repeat
and what you heard this is what I hear you say
this is how it sounds as though each feel
. it's an opportunity to then be able to say
yeah it or no I'm not quite then they can explain again
. an all-out happens out and being judge
.
and then they have horrible willingness to share thing to bear their heart
to you want to know that you can be trusted what we feel and then use your
. words don't apparent
then walk them through the experience without
then feeling as though you're trying to tell them they shouldn't
feel that way so it's really important for us to meet our children where they
. are
as we help and processed through to where they need to be
. hope that helps one today
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